valya430 Pretty doesn't prosper on it's own..... a woman must put something with it in order to be truly captivating. - January 29, 2010 add/view comments (0)

That's right, I said it. I do not want to be a cougar. I don't think that men in their 20's are sexy. I can't see myself hugged up with a man young enough to be my son or date my daughter. I know men have been doing it for years but they also stand up to pee at 2 am and we all know how marginally successful that can be. Seriously, I have some very valid reasons for not wanting to date men that young and I have no problem sharing them.

1) We really don't have enough in common. We... (continue reading)

GOD is particularly fond of all HIS children... we just don't always see it that way. Not because of what HE does but because of the lies we allow ourselves to believe. ABBA wants the best for us and HE wants us to bask in HIS glorious presence. If we let ourselves develop our relationship with HIM, we can find joy beyond what we have ever thought possible in our lives.

When we think we aren't worthy, we create a life that is less than what we could have in HIM. We hide from HIM and... (continue reading)

GOD's Day to you all! This was is eulogy I gave for my little brother and I thought it would be fitting to share it now on his birthday. This is how I remember and honor him.

I'm Vanessa Bowers-Yates. For those that don't know, I am one half of the renowned duo, " Nessie and Randy", of the "Nessie and Randy Show". I am here today to celebrate the life of my baby brother, Stuart Randolph Bowers.

As the only one of my siblings... (continue reading)

Sitting in a crowd but I am so alone

I ask myself why GOD chose now to take you home

and then I realize time don't matter much at all

you leaving before me was gonna make me fall

fall to the hurt the rage wtf didn't they do

I know that it was GOD. there was nothing they could do

SO how do I get over this rage this pain

Cuz this is so intense I feel flesh melting away

I am trying to remember in the few days that you've been gone

I... (continue reading)

It dared to be a nice day

The sun shone just enough

I had a truly good day

I felt free and loved

How could I have a good day

Can I ever be at peace

knowing I was having the time of my life

When GOD took you from me

Of course it's not about me

You suffered much too long

Your family and friends will miss you

For your children we'll be strong

I never thought you'd leave me

BUt I hold on to my... (continue reading)

My baby brother, Stuart Bowers, had a massive stroke and aneurysm at the same time wednesday morning. His is in very critical condition due to bleeding in his brain. I am asking all of you to please pray that my family is able to stay strong through all this so that we can support him, his wife and children and his grandaughter. My brothers and sisters are reeling behind this and we need the strength and peace only GOD can give us at this time.

I thank you all so much.