ok, so here i sit after a wonderful weekend with a wonderful man. but yet i cant decide if i am happy or not. you see, we had been in a relationship for a long time then decided that we needed a break... well actually, HE decided HE needed a break. so, i packed up, moved out, moved north-not just across town, got a really good job and things seemed to be going really good for me. after about a month, he called just to see how things were going. and since i have no animosity toward him, we... (continue reading)
hey there... my name is Linda and ive been here for awhile... finally decided to write a personal message... i am NOT looking for a man to take care of-so if thats what your about, keep on moving!!! i already have 2 kids!!! im not asking for much, just someone that will treat me with respect, be honest with me and most of all be fun to be with! i dont care much for the "thug-azz brothas" or the "gangstaz" - and here's a clue to whether you fit into either catergory - if you think your going to be a "rapper" someday, then you can keep moving too! i want a man in my life-someone that can take care of himself... i dont expect or want a man to take care of me, but i do expect him to pay for dinner when "HE" asks me out.... and yes, i have been on a date or 10 that ended up that way!!! puh-leazz!!! if you aint got no cash, DONT ASK ME OUT!!! now i know some of you out there are thinking im just another gold-digger, but that is NOT the case, if "I" asked you to dinner, then "I" would pay!!! see how that works... oh and another way you can tell if we wouldnt click??? if you think "rollin up to ur girlz house wit ur crew at midnight" is a good idea.... ITS NOT!!! SO DONT BOTHER...
other than that, i am pretty easy... i enjoy a good meal, good movies, good books, many sports... huge Packer fan, and i do love the Pistons. i also like golf, yeah, i love a man in plaid shorts... lol... seriously, i am not that superficial!!!
i believe that how i treat someone is how i want to be treated... so, if i treat you like a king, then i want to be treated like a queen... let me give you an example - if you come home from work (a real job-with a payroll check and everything-lol) and had a bad day, i would listen to you %#&@$!, make you a drink, hand you the remote, make you a lovely meal, rub you down (from head to foot-not just 5 minutes) then make love TO YOU!!! now all you REAL men know what im talking about... so again, "thugz and gangstaz" need not apply!!
