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Finally, several men volunteer to me that other men who use the phrase “good pussy” are showy and largely full of shit. “It refers to overall fuck enjoyability — however, a small subset of guys pretend to mean it literally.! This is a way to show off that they’re so experienced and great in bed that they can tell the difference between individual pussies.”
I am skeptical about how men use the phrase. “I truly don’t think we’re discerning enough to distinguish ‘good pussy’ and ‘pussy attached to this hot person.” “It’s an extension of how attracted you are to your partner. The ways men talk and think about sex are extremely fraught and contradictory.”

It may be some minor consolation to these women, though, to hear that good pussy often isn’t about the physical organ at all. Time and again, men tell me they use the phrase to describe a confident, enthusiastic and open-minded lover, or someone with whom they have strong sexual chemistry. “I’d say that the phrase means a good fuck, which to me would mean fun, into it and it’s a kind of physical prowess or exertion that makes all the difference. “Some women, just like men, aren’t into doing much in the bedroom, and they’ll just kinda lay there, but the women that truly fuck with their pussy? They really stand out, and control their man!”

It’s worth noting, at this stage, an important point: Women are bone tired of having their body parts analyzed in terms of how much sexual arousal they cause men. But we will continue! (“Women” and “people who have vaginas” aren’t mutually inclusive categories, of course, but there’s a large overlap between the two groups.) Women face constant, relentless pressure to be sexually attractive to men and having their body parts carved up and scrutinized for desirability on a daily basis is dehumanizing and causes significant harm. Women already bear witness to male banter about “perfect tits” and “round asses,” taking careful note of the ways in which they fall short on each front, and “good pussy” can feel like yet another impossible physical standard women are expected to meet — set by men who are, meanwhile, barely even brushing their teeth or washing their asses and dicks.

On top of that, a few men noted that good pussy is well-groomed and tastes and smells inoffensive. “One big factor that separates one pussy from another one is how it tastes!” Let’s face “all” men love to dive their ladies crazy sucking on the clit! “If the pussy taste good, neutral or even somewhat pussyish, I can roll with that. But a bad smelling or tasting pussy is pretty bad.”

The second, more commonly cited physical characteristic of good pussy is wetness. “Warm and wet” or “juicy” are adjectives I often hear used in combination, and Some men even goes as far as to specify a desired viscosity — “Not watery wet, but more of a slick wetness.” Some men note that a wet vagina is a good sign that their partners are enjoying themselves. “If I had to distill my own impression of what the phrase ‘good pussy’ would mean, I’d substitute it for ‘enthusiasm!” “Enthusiasm probably sits somewhere between ‘ability to fuck’ and ‘wetness,’ as both an emotional and physiological expression of being into it.” I don’t believe that’s woman can be into it and not get wet!

The male obsession with tight vaginas is famed and somewhat unfortunate. It’s closely bound up with the myth that having lots of sex loosens a vagina — i.e., that slutty women are “loose” — and considering the fact that anxiety makes the vaginal musculature clench tightly, men are liable to mistake an unhappy, tense partner for someone with a “tight pussy.” “‘Tight’ versus ‘loose’ is probably some misogynist bullshit myth,!” “Anecdotally, I’ve never encountered a loose pussy, and can’t think of anyone whose opinion I trust that says they have.” Two other men echoed this sentiment. However, vaginas are all different shapes and sizes, and there may be certain “fits” that feel better for certain penises. Tightness, control or fit, then, do appear to be subjective aspects of good pussy.

Most men agrees that grip is an important factor — “For intercourse, from a sensation perspective, I’d say tight like a firm handshake, but no tighter — and control of the vagina is key: “some women for instance, can clench hers tightly, and also contract it in such a way that it feels like she’s either drawing the man in or pushing him out.” For sure, if she has these traits, she will control her man!

In order to get to the bottom of this pressing dilemma, I spoke to some of my female and men graduate students, and two queer women about what they mean when they say “good pussy.” Upon doing so, it becomes immediately apparent that good pussy means different things to different people, and no clear consensus arises. Certain themes, however, do recur.
One such theme, for better or worse, is tightness. “‘Good pussy’ is a mixture of a bunch of things, but the most important quality, at least to average sized dick havers is tightness.” Women can make up for it in other ways if they’re not naturally tight. For example, if they’re really good on top, it can still be awesome, and there are some positions, mostly involving their legs being close together, that produce a tighter effect.”

The phrase “good pussy” is everywhere these days. Whether it’s Cardi B spitting the line “Pussy so good I say my own name during sex” or the #goodpussyproblems tag on Instagram, it’s become the brag du jour among (mostly) young women online and a heartfelt compliment men and others dish out about their pussy-having lovers. But what does it actually mean? Is good pussy about wetness, tightness or appearance? It is less about the pussy itself, and more about how the person “uses” it during sex? Or can it even extend to more cerebral qualities, such as the personality of the person whose pussy is being praised?

WHAT DO WE (men) REALLY MEAN BY ‘GOOD PUSSY’?
Is it about ‘tightness,’ ‘wetness’ or the ‘personality’ of the pussy-haver? Seriously considers the question of what constitutes good pussy. “It can mean so many things — look, feel and the person it belongs to — but when it comes to penetrative intercourse, it’s about fit.” “I still think about the best fit I’ve ever had.” Every man notices the way a vagina fits his penis, and it can change over time. “At the beginning of my relationship with a female fried, it was good but not great.” “But it became wonderful! I guess it’s a physical representation of our growing love for one another, even though it’s crass to think of her in those terms.”