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I'm here looking to meet people with values and goals. Honesty goes a very very long way with me. And how you treat me is the way I will treat you.
After reviewing a lot of pages I have noticed a pattern. Guys are saying us women are declaring our "independence" too loudly or misleading them with what we consider independence. I can only speak for myself when I say this. I am independent. It means exactly this: I can stand in this world on my own two feet, alone. Though at times I may very well want someone to stand beside me or chose to be alone. I work very hard for everything I have, and will not allow anyone to take away from my goals. My independence is not all that I am, but it is what I have created to be strong and confident, while still remaining humble and compassionate.
I will always keep it real with people. I hate that I, by just being a woman, will be stereotyped that I automatically play games. The only games I will ever play is the occasional video game, that is all. I'm not into hurting or manipulating guys or other girls. It's childish and cruel. I'm grown.
Now, to the men out there. Understand this. Yes, women tend to bring baggage and dump all their insecurities to the next guy. It's wrong. But don't feed into it, by acting a fool. Many times guys lead girls on, to get some. If you are one and reading this, please don't even waste your time. I refuse to play.
I am ambitious with my goals. Determine to make myself better. With or without a guy as my equal. Because I am the only person to create the person I want to be in the end. I have to live within my own skin, no one else. I have no kids, and won't until I'm prepared to take care of them (whole-heartedly). I have nothing against people with kids, as long as you provide for them finanically and emotionally.
I'm happy with the person I am and continue to grow wiser every moment. I am a person that likes to be around friends and different environments. I can go out or stay in. But at least once a month I have to dance out my feelings.
If you want to learn more about what I'm about hit me up. I will chat it up with you. But please try harder than talking about the weather. Come on, I wont hold up a convo about nothing. Tell me something real.

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