are in general a %#&@$!...but you live and you learn...break your own set of principles and watch the flood gates open...keep your business yours...and win or lose, most conflicts will resolve themselves as they normally would...if others put your business in the streets...don't go tit for tat...cause before long you lose control of the flow of information (which is rule #1 to handling your business)...you lose the ability to define the arugment (rule #2)...and therefore lose the ability to... (continue reading)

may very well be true measure of your progress...allow me to set the scene for you...its 10:30 a.m. one and one-half hours after one is supposed to be in court to handle one's business...you stroll into this court..in house slippers..real talk..and expect for someone to take you seriously..mind you, this dude was all of 27, maybe 28...and he rolled up in the spot like he need two more cups of coffee to make it through noon...i harken back to the old army commercials, we do more before nine... (continue reading)

I gather there is room for comments, i guess that's the hazard putting yourself out there..but i generally work on a principal of not giving unsolicited advice..so the same would be appreciated..if i want to know something, i will ask... by the way, i am also writing a book call "A*shole: Seven effective ways to turn people off in 7 seconds or less" (joke) i'm not that anal, but that actually is a tenant i go by...there are other general canons that get me through the day and will... (continue reading)