AT2M's Blog

-Do what makes you happy.

-Be with who makes you smile.

-Laugh as much as you breath.

-Love as long as you live.

When we believe we are losing control, we grab on tight. If we want to avoid pain, we hold on for dear life. When we are in fear of losing, looking bad or being abandoned we tighten our grip. When our greatest fear comes upon us, we clench our fist and teeth and close our eyes and hold on. We must learn how to let go. We have the capacity to live through any adversity if we simply let it go. We can not stop time or destiny. Whatever is going to happen has already happened; we must learn how to see it through to the end. When we hold on, we prolong the pain. When we dig our feet in, we must be uprooted. When the time comes for growth and change, we must have the courage and faith to let go.

Whatever leaves my life, makes room for something better!!!!!

Wherever you are in your heart and mind at the onset of a relationship is where you will be at the end. Whatever you bring to the start of the relationship is what you will have to clean up in the end. You can not begin a relationship in dishonesty and deceit and have hope to experience an honest end. If you run into a relationship to get away from another, you will run into another to get away from this one. If you enter a relationship in fear, anger or grief, you stand a chance of finding more of the same. If you enter a relationship in sadness, despiration and pain, guess what? You will find it again. If we want to put and end to angry, bitter and ugly seperation, we must begin our relationship with the honesty we say we want. If we do not know who we are and how we feel at any time, it is best that we stay alone.

I will be better at the beginning to avoid anything worse at the end!!!!!!!!