ThisisJ's Blog

I will tell you what's up with these boys on here. They dont want to talk to you unless you give out your number to them. well, you have to say more than hello to me for you to get my number. giving out a few lame one liners really doesnt cut it. Sorry, guys! That really doesnt impress me. You have to tell me something different and i have to like it and be more than a little intrigued in order to hand out my number. It says directly in my profile that i do not plan to meet anyone from on here or give out my number. If it wasnt true I wouldnt put it in my profile. Just b/c you think i am cool, sexy, gorgeous, thick, tall, etc. doesnt mean just b/c you say it I will be all over you willing to hand out my number. Sorry, but i have heard all that before and it doesnt mean that you will be getting cute remarks on how much your lame comment didnt make me feel or giggly or special. it is just something that a lot of dudes on here say just to get your number so they can play you. I didnt come to BP just to get phone calls from a bunch of losers who are just looking for their next f*ck! Just b/c you say hello to me doesnt mean i am just gonna give you my number. and giving out a few brief details about yourself, information that doesnt begin to scratch the surface of the real person you are, doesnt constitute a phone conversation. If you cant hold a convo with me here on BP i dont feel that you will be much better with talking on the phone. b/c all you are gonna try to do is beg me to meet you when i didnt even want to give you my number. I know the game guys, and it is not going to work. you suck us in with getting the phone number and then turn thirsty by begging to meet. Read the profile and not just see what you wanna see or dont just look at the photos. B/c if you paid any attention you would have seen the fact that i keep it real and tell it like it is. NOT giving out the number and NOT gonna meet you. IS THAT PLAN ENOUGH FOR YOU?!?!?!?!? Miss Jackie

For all of you are are viewing my page either b/c i peaked your interest or you are just browsing, here is a little info about myself that i thought you should know b/4 you attempt to contact me. I have noticed that all the people IM'ing me lately are really friendly but quick to try and meet up. I am extremely skeptical about meeting people and no one has really shown me anything that would interest me in meeting you. It seems that all the people who i talk to just want to come over my place and chill out or want me to come over to them to "hang out." Sorry guys, but i can do all that by myself. what makes these people out here think that i want to talk to you so you can come over and sit on my couch and chill. NO. i dont want to do that. The whole purpose of meeting you is for me to get to know you and we can do things together. It seems that guys just expect to have sex when they meet you. Not ME. if i wanted to just have you come over to sleep together then i would have it in my profile and that would be established in the conversation. but NO. guys just expect it. Without having to do anything. Well, wake up and smell the coffee b/c i am the wrong one. go get a hooker, bust down, or prostitute if you want just meaningless sex. I am not looking for that. If you expect to get something, then provide something in return. you come and crash at my house for free AND expect free sex. GET REAL GENTLEMEN. Us REAL WOMEN want to be treated right b/4 you get anything. i am not saying i expect fancy restaurants or expensive gifts to get me to spend time with you. But i will tell you all what i DO want and what i DO expect when i meet and get to know a man; I want conversation. I want companionship. I want to be treated with respect. I want to be treated like you actually like me. I want to be treated like you actually care about my feelings. I want to be treated like a human being and not a piece of %#&@$!. I want a 50/50 relationship. I want to give what i want to get. I want to be treated like the woman that i am. I will not settle for less. If you look, I said nothing about needing a man to spend money on me or you needing to be rich. Now, dont get me wrong, going out to eat and being treated every once in a while is always nice and i expect that too(and am even willing to take you out and treat you). but i also expect you to want me for me and want to do go out and do things with me. I am finding that too many guys just want to talk sex and not get to know me outside of the biblical sense. Dont expect to meet me if you dont want more than sex.