KingJye's Blog

It's a crying shame that when a woman is interested in a man she has to ask him if he's gay, been with a man, interested in being with another man, etc. While giving this some thought I realized that the ladies aren't alone in having to ask those types of questions....

Nowadays guys need to ask similar questions, but based on some of the pages I've been seeing on BP (and people in ATL)brothers are going to need to ask the following question: Were you born a female?

Yep, sad but true. This will be the norm for dating for most fellas. I heard a radio show were a guy was married to what he thought was a woman. The fact of the matter was he married a post-op transexual. When asked what if the husband wants children, the transsexual answer that the husband was told that his "wife" has a medical condition that prevents them from having kids. I mean whoa! Brothers you better stop looking at what appears to be women with lust-filled eyes and start using your third eye and start asking that new dating norm question "were you born a woman?" lol

Back with another blog. I was looking at a family picture my sisters and I took for my mother. The picture consisted of each sibling and their family; so you had my son and I, and my 2 sisters and their husbands and kids. One day I was looking at the picture and started thinking about how we all got to GA. What I noticed blew my mind. Follow me if you will....
My sister (the 2nd oldest) got pregnant and dropped out of college. She then moved to Georgia where she met a guy got married and had 2 more kids. When my oldest sister moved to GA the 2nd oldest introduced her to her current husband and they have 2 kids. When I moved to GA with my girlfriend at the time I stayed with the 2nd oldest and made my son. Now let's look at how one person's choice actually impacted the lives of others...
If the 2nd oldest had finished college when she first went, she wouldn't have moved to GA which means no husband and no 2 kids with him. My oldest sister wouldn't have moved to GA, which means she would not have been introduced to her husband and wouldn't have had my 2 nieces. It also means that I wouldn't have moved to GA and wouldn't have my son, or my daughter because my son's mother wouldn't have met her daughter's father. Isn't that crazy?
From one person's choice 12 lives were affected, and some lives actually were created as a result of that one person's choice. This should make anyone who reads this blog consider the choices they've made in the past, and inspired them to make good choices for the future because you never know who your choice will affect.