-SweetLadyTT-'s Blog

I have had 3 guys this week try to screw me and did not know me from a can of paint. What is up with that? What happened to asking a girl out on a date and buying her dinner? Men seem to want a BBW in private only. It seems only the skinny girls get respect now a days. I have notice that in all the BBW groups, there are mostly perverts. Do NOT get me wrong, sex is a great thing. I would just prefer it with someone who is not ashamed of me and my size. And someone I know well and can trust. But is SEX the only thing that is desired from A BBW like myself?

Why do BBW lovers have to be in the closet with it?

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Ok, So this guy I was talking to kept bring up the subject of sex and did not yet know much about me. So I asked him when the last time he got tested HIV and he laughed at me. Telling me as long as a condom was being used, it was not nessesary. WE ALL KNOW BETTER THAN THAT RIGHT??? I told him that if he ever wanted to have sex with me, he would need to get an HIV test and show me the results on paper. The guy got offended and started trying to make me feel stupid for asking. He yelled at me and got very upset. I told him to forget it and I never heard from him again. Another guy I was talking to started asking about sex as well. He had seem to get offended as well and thought I was calling him a hoe. He too seem to think that condoms was all that was needed to stay healthy.

WHAT IS GOING ON!?!?!?! What is wrong with an HIV test?!?!?!

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This motion photo was done over a year ago. You can tell because my hair is a little shorter and it was before I learned to do my eye brows. lol! I might do some more soon. I have more on my myspace page: www.myspace.com/sweetladytt

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MRS. Right

1. Ms. Gold-Digger

Advantages
a. You have some one to manage your money.
b. She always looks good.
c. She makes your other homeboys jealous.
d. She makes you look good.

Disadvantages
a. When you get broke she'll be gone and take what you have left.
b. She makes sure she has a child by you to sue you for child support.
c. Once your homeboy comes up she'll be on his arm the next day.




2. Ms. Freak (secret lover)

Advantages
a. She knows all the right positions.
b. She'll try everything more than once.
c. You're never unsatisfied.
d. She'll do all the things your girl won't do.
e. She doesn't mind being your freak, as long as she catches one too.

Disadvantages
a. Eventually, b/c she's a female, she'll end up catching feelings.
b. She starts to act like she's your "main".
c. She fools around with ya boy and act like you in the wrong for telling her that she's a freak.
d. Eventually her sex gets old. And you need a replacement.



3. Ms. Independent

Advantages
a. You don't have to worry about buying her anything. She got it.
b. She's intelligent, sassy, confident and determined.
c. She's great for (business) conversation.
d. She keeps it real and has goals.
e. She knows how to please a man.

Disadvantages
a. She will continuously let you know, that she can handle it on her own.
b. She will eventually say f&@you and get a dildo.
c. She will consider you another one her play toys, or goals.


4. Ms. Dyme
Advantages
a. She's top of the line.
b. She stays looking like a fantasy.
c. She has the body of a goddess with the face to match.
d. She considers herself a "model"
e. Gets you on hard whenever you see her.
f. All the girls envy her, but she doesn't care.

Disadvantages
a. She's superficial. She cares only about her looks.
b. She honestly lacks confidence and will annoy you about the way she looks.
c. She's probably dumb as hell and if she's not her personality is dry.
d. You have to constantly keep your game up b/c every guy is gonna try to get her.


5. Ms. Tomboy

Advantages
a. She's cool and laid back.
b. She'll be willing to play rough with you.
c. Of course, she loves sports.
d. Her body is athletically divine.
e. She's easy to talk to and fun to be around.
f. She's a diamond in the rough.

Disadvantages
a. She'll remind you too much of one of your boys.
b. She might not want to change her appearance.
c. She might actually beat you in basketball, football and track.


6. Ms. Ghetto

Advantages
a. She's not afraid of any other female or male. She will fight to keep you.
b. She's down for you. She'll be there to bail you out of jail.
c. She's always stays fresh.
d. She can cook up a storm. She can make the best out of a bad situation.
e. She keeps it real and keeps you satisfied.

Disadvantages
a. She doesn't know how to act in public.
b. Your mama can't stand her.
c. You get into with her every other second.
d. She's willing to fight another girl looking at you or her PERIOD.
e. Her weave colors are distracting and her vocabulary is minimal.






7. Ms. Good Girl

Advantages
a. She's always there for you.
b. She's intelligent, classy, kind, sweet and cool.
c. Your mother loves her.
d. You can see yourself falling in love with her.
e. You are her first everything.
f. She makes you feel like a man.

Disadvantages
a. She's an A or B situation either:
A. You're not gonna get any until ya'll are married or
B. She said she's never done - she said she's never tried - she's sitting there telling a muthaf* lie.


8. Ms. Main

Advantages
a. She is the one you respect.
b. She probably may know about the others but might not care.
c. She has all the qualities you want in a female.
d. You've been with her forever.

Disadvantages
a. She starts getting very suspicious and calls you every moment.
b. She will devise a plan to catch you in your act and then kick your butt


9. Ms. Psycho

Advantages
a. She's fun and spontaneous.
b. She's down to earth.
c. She loves you unconditionally.
d. Everything about her is too good to be true. So everyone loves her.
e. She makes you feel loved.

Disadvantages
a. Don't you break up with her. She will stalk you constantly.
b. She keeps pictures of you everywhere and knows everything about you.
c. She can manipulate the hell out of you.
d. She will consider herself wifey even if she may just be that chick on the side.
e. Messing with her can make your life a living hell.


10. Ms. I have a Man

Advantages
a. She may have a man but she'll mess with you anyway.
b. She looks good.
c. You have an intense night of passion with her.

Disadvantages
a. She'll always come crying to you about the problems with her man.
b. She'll get you caught up and then leave you anyway for her man.
c. If you piss her off she'll get her man to come beat your ass.
d. She'll unofficially make you her man once she gets pissed off at her real man.

11. Ms. Tease

Advantages
a. She's tempting and a nice piece of eye candy.
b. She's intelligent, athletic, respectable and SEXXXXXXY.
c. She knows how to turn you on without touching you.
d. Everything she does is just so sensual.
e. She can bring you to that point and make you wait to get it.
f. Every time you see her you catch a mini orgasm.
g. Every nigga wants her b/c she's so mysterious and that makes you want to get her first.

Disadvantages
a. NO matter what you think or do you never get it.
b. She probably has a long distance boyfriend somewhere that you will never know about.
c. She gets you hard and leaves you like that. (Unbearable)

12. MRS. RIGHT

Advantages
a. She is not sexy, fine, or a dyme she is Beautiful and therefore encompasses all of these descriptions.
b. She is intelligent, sassy, funny, outgoing, determined, strong and classy.
c. She can cook or at least order a meal that is just like your mother's.
d. Her personality is just as beautiful as her body.
e. She believes in God and follows his virtues.
f. She knows that a relationship requires a 200uota yet she gives her man an extra 10 /SPAN>
g. She can please her man in anyway. Mentally, Spiritually, and Sexually.
h. She makes you recognize your full potential as a man and completes you.
i. She's always there for, no matter what your dreams are.
j. She's not afraid to tell you the truth and set you straight.
k. You can talk to her and confide in her, she's your best friend.
l. You love being around her more than your boys.
m. You can share your most intimate moments with her without sex.
n. You can have a bad argument with her and have the BEST Mind Numbing and passionate love making fest ever.
o. She's always willing to find a way to work out your problems and will often take most of your *bleep*. But she's also intelligent enough to leave.
p. She's nothing like any other girl you've met. She's your woman.

Disadvantage
a. You've probably met her, or had her in your life but got too consumed with all the other types that you let her go

LADIES REPOST IF U THINK THIS IS TRU AND WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN ARE YOU?

FELLAS REPOST IF U ONLY WANT MRS. RIGHT OR ALREADY HAVE HER. IF YOU DON'T HAVE EITHER, POST WHICH WOMAN YOU WANT

The amount of sex partners I have had can be counted on one hand(not many). All of my partners have told me that I had some "good puss.y". I wondered for a long time what the meaning of that was. Is there really a such thing as "bad puss.y"? If so, please telll me what would make a puss.y bad?

Please comment on this in this blog only.

"WOMEN ARE LIKE APPLES ON TREES.THE BEST ONE`S ARE AT THE TOP OF THE TREE. SOME MEN DON`T WANT TO REACH FOR THE GOOD ONES BECAUSE THEY ARE AFRAID OF FALLING AND GETTING HURT. INSTEAD, THEY JUST GET THE ROTTEN APPLES FROM THE GROUND THAT AREN`T AS GOOD BUT EASY. SO THE APPLES AT THE TOP THINK SOMETHING IS WRONG WITH THEM,WHEN IN REALITY, THEY ARE AMAZING! THEY JUST HAVE TO WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MAN TO COME ALONG,THE ONE WHO`S BRAVE ENOUGH TO CLIMB ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP OF THE TREE"
Tell me if you like the good apples you have to work for or the not so good apples you don't have to work for.

Let me give you some background history of why I post this question. I was checking out one of my friends page and I noticed he was in a few transsexuals groups. When I asked him his sexual orientation he got very defensive and said that "sleeping with transsexuals doesnt make u gay, only men who sleep with regular looking men would be labeled gay". My reaction was the same as many who may read this, "WHAT?!" I visited one of these groups to view the members and to my surprise, I saw a few of my straight males friends in the group. Ladies, men, transsexuals and transsexual lovers lets discuss....

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Yeah, they tried to hate on me and my son but I ended getting a style "DO" and nice comments so the poster had egg on her face HAHA! Click below to see it larger.

Then they posted me again comparing me to "Whitney Houston from the body guard" and I still got a style DO. Click below to see it larger.

And IIIIIIIII EEEEEEEEE IIIIIIII WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOOOOOOOOOOOU! LMAO! Never had someone hate me so damn hard to keep creating profiles to post more of my photos.