courtneyR's Blog

If a woman's Mars is in Cancer, she may prefer the sensitive type of man who is compassionate, sensitive, and protective. These women sometimes are attracted to temperamental sorts, finding moodiness in a man rather intriguing. They want men with "layers"(remember Shrek?). However, they are not into the type of men that Mars in Pisces women are most attracted to. In fact, they generally want men who are strong and traditionally masculine. Generally, these women prefer men who are physically strong or at least look that way--remember that they love to feel protected. As a cancer,I've always felt this way and always knew the man that I will end up with will have these attributes.Although they are a dieing breed... It's strange to me that to many men actually think that all of us as women don't inspire to want a man to be an actual man.To have some tradition's past down from your fathers or elders,positive tradition's.Sensitive in a man in this sense doesnt mean womanly.It simply means a man having the compassion and understanding to listen to his woman when she needs him to.Not to neccessarily fix the problem but to care enough about her emotional needs as well as physical needs.I dont think men understand this unless they grew up in a household with a mother and father working as a team to raise thier children together. A boy being taught by his mother how he should respect women and his father teaching his boy how to treat and respect women like he does his wife.Same goes for a little girl who will grow into a woman oneday.I respect men because I respect my father who taught me what to look out for when it comes to men and my mother who taught me how to be a real woman and to respect men.She taught me that I didnt have to use my body to trick a man...She groomed me to do for myself.The music,all the hobbies,dance,reading books,expanding my mind.She told me a man should be my friend,someone responsible to add and build a life with each other.Not use each other.Some of you cant comprehend what I just said and that's fine.Im not speaking to you...If you as a woman respected men,you wouldnt cheat on them,use them, trap them.Same with men concerning women..If you were a true man,you wouldnt use women,hurt them,trap them...Helping and leaning on each other for whatever support each one of you need in one another..Lying,sneeking around on each other,not communicating with each other daily insures that you wont have something special with someone.It will be a sham...Oneday you will have to look at your life and what kind of family you built...If you build it on lies and bullshit,I will assure you that your seeds,children will repeat the same nonsense you laid at thier feet to emulate...And you will have NO RIGHT to tell them how to be and live because you didnt lead by your own example ladies and gentelmen...Unless one of them is wise enough to see what you are doing is wrong and wants to break to cycle.The state of this generation and beyond,so lost.Not all,but alot of confused men and women who dont understand what this sacred relationship between a man and a woman really is...This is why things are the way that they are.Men who leave thier women to play around and women who leave thier man to play around aught to be ashamed of themselves.Like they say,what comes around,goes around....Watch what kind of energy you are putting out in the universe.What you put out,must come back in some shape or form...No one ever truly gets away with anything..Just because everyone else is doing something wrong,doesnt mean you have to.Be an example and a leader..Not a follower...How one lives matters...

MY HEART IS OVERJOYED TONIGHT...WE FINALLY DID IT.. I AM OVERJOYED TONIGHT BECAUSE AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN CAN ASPIRE TO BE MORE IF WE CHOOSE,, WE ARE BEAUTIFUL,CLASSY,ARTICULATE WIVES,MOTHERS,DAUGHTERS AND GRANDMOTHERS WITH GRACE AND INTELLIGENCE AND WE NOW HAVE ONE OF THE GREATEST EXAMPLES OF THAT HUMBLENESS AND GRACE IN AN AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN BY THE NAME OF MICHELLE OBAMA......AND BY HER SIDE, MR PRESIDENT OBAMA..THIS IS HOW I FEEL AND WANTED TO SHARE.. MR PRESIDENT OBAMA AND FIRST LADY MICHELLE WITH THEIR TWO BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN, WELCOME THIS FIRST FAMILY WITH OPEN ARMS.. WOMEN ,STAND UP TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR LIVES..AND NEVER LET ANYONE ,ANY MAN TELL YOU THAT YOU ARE NOT DESERVING ...NEVER LET ANY ONE DISRESPECT THE VERY ESSENCE OF YOU...WE ARE ALL LEADERS IN OUR OWN RIGHT AND HAVE A VOICE TO SPEAK WHAT NEEDS TO BE SAID.WHICH IS THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT WE REALLY ARE.... LOL (LOTS OF LOVE)