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On Sunday August 23rd 2009 6PM at the Nuyorican Poet's Cafe in New York City at 235 East 3rd Street(bet Ave B & C), New York, NY 10009, The Talented and Funny Ladies of Sister Girl is going to be bringing you another LIVE SHOW!! Come Join us as we take sketch comedy to the NEXT LEVEL. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS THIS GREAT SHOW!!! For more info email me at info@sistergirltv.com or check out http://www.sistergirltv.com

Bi-sexuality among women has been increasing over the past couple of years due in large part of the internet, which to say it's not necessarily a bad thing, depending on which side of the bed you are sleeping on. I think there is something very sexy about two sexy women coming together, and I'm sure a lot of men share in this belief, and a lot of us guys would support the ideal of our girlfriend having a girlfriend on the side as long as we can enjoy in the pleasure as well. Which in some way can be a good thing or bad thing depending on which side of the bed you are sleeping on. The Pros side of the bed is easy. As a guy we to get the pleasure of having two women at once, but you have to understand this is not really for US but for our girl so we have to accept the fact that there may be times where our services may not be needed and we have to be a watcher instead of a joiner. Also this doesn't give you the opportunity to get a "cheaters" pass to go out there and finds girls to bring home. Another thing don't think you would get the chance to have a one on one with her "girlfriend" once again this is not for US to enjoy. In order to get the most out of this Fellas we have to be very very understanding, if you can't then that type of situation is not going to work. Now the Con side of the bed, she could leave you for the other woman, but that is the risk you take when you decide to accept it. You have to be a man in this type of situation, if you catch your girl doing it, understand that she hid it from you for a reason, if she talks to you about it first before doing it understand that is for a reason. For each reason you have to be open it could be the best thing in the world if you play it right or it could be the worse. Communication is key. You will be very surprise at the increasing number of women looking to engage in some type of bi-sexual encounter or relationship.

Let's talk!! And when I mean talk I don't want to talk about how your day was or what you ate for lunch, even though those things are just as important, but I want to talk about you laying down and me taken control over all your senses. I want to talk about my hands moving over your body to the slow rhythm of your heartbeat. You see I want to talk about sex, but not the wham, bam, thank you mama type of sex talk, but the slow moving, ear blowing, make you get wet and moaning type of sex talk. I love sex talk and most women do too, because when you can talk to someone about sex, you are able to excite their minds, and when that happens it makes everything else so much better, not just for them, but for you as well. Like anything else, you have to know how to talk to your woman or man; you have to understand what their desires and fantasies are and if you have been dating for a while . you should know. Once you understand that then you are able to bring pleasure to that person in more ways than one. You have to know how to talk to them in ways that makes them want to have sex with you, and it's not about bragging or saying I'm going to do this and that or how big you are. It's about painting an erotic picture they can dream about during the day so when they get home, their mind is so aroused, it makes the whole evening exciting. Now talking to your mate in this matter seems to be a lost art to some people, but for me it's an art form. I get great pleasure in stimulating the mind of a woman. To excite their mind in such a way that when the physical takes place they reach their orgasmic pleasure to the highest level and they loose control becoming even more open than before. Sex is 80% mental, and for most of us we only focus on 20%, leaving behind an unsatisfied lover. This is one of the reasons most women either don't have orgasms or haven't felt the true uncontrollable orgasmic feeling they were meant to have. My thing is, if you are going to please someone, please him or her fully. There is no point in having sex if you are not going to enjoy 100% of it RC The Voice "Stimulate her mind and her body will follow...."

Well the summer time is pretty much over in New York and I must say it wasn't the summer I would have like it to be. You see I'm a leg man, and I'm always looking forward to the summertime in New York; that's when I get the chance to enjoy seeing some nice sexy legs, however this summer (even though I did see a lot of nice legs) I was a little unhappy with the foot wear I saw women wearing. There is nothing more exciting to a leg man than seeing nice legs with even nicer heels. Now don't get we wrong ladies I understand you like to go with comfort over style, and sometimes those heels can get a little uncomfortable; I feel you on this but when you are wearing a nice short dress or skirt, the last thing you need to be wearing are flip flops or those flat no heel shoes. Why show that much leg and wear the wrong foot wear? It does the outfit no justice. What is the point in having on a sexy outfit and your foot wear looks like you just came out the shower? What makes it even worse is I work in lower Manhattan , the place where you expect to see women wearing their heels to work, but even that's not the case. They are walking around in shower shoes, well at least that's what I call them ;-), and once again ladies I understand comfort over style, but to make it even more badly, ladies were wearing them to the clubs. This is where I have to draw the line! Now don't get me wrong I don't expect women to wear heels everyday, even though that would be nice but at least maybe 3 times a week, and it's not just for me and my other leg & heel lovers out there but it's good for you as well, because it allows for good posture. So for my ladies that continue to wear heels and show off those sexy legs keep doing what you're doing cause I'm watching, and for the ladies that don't and choose to wear the short skirts with the shower shoes I'm still watching just not as much ;-)