zslovesjazz's Blog

UNC has what it takes to make that Final Four Appearance and to WIN the National Championship.. Guts, Teamwork, Agility and a Bench full of Skilled Athletes!! All you Duke, Louisville, Mizzou & Pitt fans can view my video to get an introduction to the team and the players...

I Hope You find this as Useful as I Do/Did... #1. If a man want you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. #2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. #3. If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's character, Leave Him Alone. #6. Don't force an attraction. #7. Slower is better. #11. Don't Settle. #16. The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU. #20. Always put yourself and your happiness first. #24. Be Honest and Upfront. More to come, I'll give you time to digest these. Ms. Z

The most important lesson of pain is that it is not necessary. -- Alan Cohen Pain is a by-product of resistance, if you learn to go with the flow and trust the process you will experience NO PAIN. Can we just BE? Can we just Enjoy this moment? Without trying to control or manipulate the outcome. Ms. Z

I've asked this question to several individuals and they found it very difficult to answer, especially when I restricted their answer to not include: 1. Their Possessions, 2. Their Employment or Educational achievements, 3. Their Roles in someones life (i.e. Mother, Son, Spouse, etc) 4. Their Past (accomplishments, failures) 5. Religion. Please take the time to ponder this question and add a comment to my page with your thoughts. I'll give my input next week. Z

Yes, you heard me. This Blog is entitled, "Bitching, Whinning & Nagging"... To my lovely men-folks, aren't you tired of hearing the same old stuff over & over & over again. You just wish she'd "shut the hell up", Hell you heard her the first 10 damn times. U were going to do it, but after she asked you that fifth time, you're not going to do it now. Ladies, oh my Lovely Ladies; have you fallen into that trap, of Bitching at a a Grown ASS man; of Nagging at him to "Fix the ....", for, "Take care of the ....". Just in case you forgot, I'll tell you again, You cannot make a grown person do anything.. Either he will or he won't, don't get yourself all worked up over it, don't play 'games'; Just Do It, like Nike says... Yes, this could be the end of the relationship, or make you see him in a different light; but at the end of the day, you've grown, you've prospered and you've developed a skill.. Now lets Breathe and get to Living.... Z P.S., Before anyone asks, this was not written in reference to my current relationship. WE have perfectly clear understanding of one another 'choices' and reserve the right to take action, whenever required.

THIS HAS BEEN A TERRIBLE WEEK....

FIRST OF ALL, NORTH CAROLINA LOST.... Yes, I can finally say it out loud. Yes, I know that everyone loses but we looked terribly Lost, like we didn't have any reason being there. Damn that hurts.

SECONDLY, I hate my job.. I want to get into SAP Consulting. The Opportunities are endless, the field is growing and I've very challenged by the software. I'm getting plenty of bites but nothing solid, yet.

LASTLY, My Ass is getting Big. I mean fat and round, hell it's starting to 'jiggle'. This is not good. I'm worked out 3 times this week and its' only Wednesday.

Lucky for me that my man is coming home on Saturday and we'll celebrate in Grand Fashion on Saturday night; allowing me to work out all my frustrations in a public, yet private venue. This will start next week off just fine..