Miss_BeLLa_B's Blog

Ok the guys have man a great argument how I need to also take into consideration the other side. But what I would first like to address is that not all women are like this I am a real woman and its sad that there are ladies ( I dunno if I should even call them ladies, cause they act so dayum childish)out there who contine to ruin our chances of happiness with another man. I am tired OH SOO SOOOO TIRED of men assuming certain things about me. There are stereotypes I noticed that guys tend to point out in the comments from my first blog. 1. Golddigger- to all of you gold diggers out there, lets be real girl you need to make your own money and stop trying to get his. You are not even an adult til you can stand strong on your own (financially, emotionally and mentally). Its his money cause HE worked for it, why don't you do the same cause I'm tired of guys thinking that we real ass females are like this. 2. Ho- Ok sooooo this right here deserves a blog of its own and it will come..but till then ladies I understand that if men can do it we can too, no thats not the case women I'm sorry to break it to you. Its sad but true, society has women on higher standards then men. Ladies you should want to carry yourself in a classy sophisticated manner. (as Katt Williams says you need to work on your star player girls!) Now I'm not saying go out and bang every guys you see or never have sex, cause I dont think that either one of those ideas are good. But what I do think is that you need to be able to have a relationship with a guy and keep it to yourself if your gonna be getting down like that...which brings me to my next point 3. KEEP YOUR BUSINESS, YOUR BUSINESS...I know we as women tend to talk about relationships (in all aspects of our life- friends, family, men or women (if you like that too aint nothing wrong with that..), co-workers etc. Privacy is the only thing that you can control now. If you are upset why people call you this or say this to you, its because you opened your mouth and your girl that you thought was your girl she really is not your girl like that cause she went and spread your business like that. I hate to admit it BUT SOOOOME women they thrive off of other people's business cause they don't have anything going on in their lives. 4. FOR ALL THE HATERS...PLEASE PLEASE READ THIS PART IF YOU GONNA READ ANY PART..... I am sooo tired of you ladies (I know guys do this too sometimes) hating on another female cause she has it going on. I'm sorry if your not getting as much attention as she is but for real come on, your girl does have it going on! I go to school full time,I have my own car work two jobs, and have my own apartment, no kids, I don't sleep around, I drink OCCASSSIONALLY!, and I am a real ass bitch.....HATERS THRIVE OFF OF PEOPLE LIKE ME!! to the ladies who are hating, please keep it comin cause I know I'm doing something right here!!! So keep this shit coming, cause I hate to disappoint you but I'm not gonna get any worse like you really want, I'm just gonna get better in time!!! 5. To those of you who are letting the haters affect you, don't because you should take it as a compliment that people will go soo far out of their way to hate on you, These bitches dont have shit good going on in their lives so they decide to go after you cause you are the shit and they are deeply insecure of you! 6. CRAZZZY ASS BABY MOMMAS! (NOT ALL BABY MOMMAS ARE LIKE THIS BUT TO THE ONES WHO ARE CRAZY)_-Come the fuck on now. The girl understands you and HER new man HAD something special going on, but you really don't need to act like ya'll still together. Its one thing to be there for the baby, I totalyl support that all men should take care of their kids, but these baby mommas out here need to understand that when you divorce or break up that means ya'll are not together anymore, I dunno how many times he and I have to stress on this. (I have 4 brothers and two of them seem to have this problem)_ 7. TO THE BITCHES WHO THINK THEY ON-girls girl girls come the f on now, why are you pretending to be a bad bitch when everyone knows your not. Here are some pointers as to what you can do to step yo game up..FIRST OF ALL BE REAL! Secondly you should reevauluate why you are in this problem in the first place cause we all did not do this to you boo boo revaluate dayum self for a minute girl! 8. To the ladies with low self esteem- you are going to be played for a fool till you get some mother f-in confidence! Stop thinking that you are not the shit, cause if YOU think that, everyone else are automatically gonna perceive what you put out there! 9. I know its the millenium and we need to have an equal playing ground, and men should be catering to us, but come on you gotta step it up for your man! You gotta go that extra mile to keep him interested, cause if you dont then he will cheat. My best advice is one a week (at least if not everyday cause that is the type of woman I am) try to find a way to make him feel special. Ladies start treating your men how you would want to be treated, it will make him want to do the same for you! Ok I know that is a lot to take in, so I'm just gonna leave it right there for today, let it marinade with you...I know I probably missed out on a whole bunch of points but I am suuper tired and need to work on this paper so I will be back with more. Don't Worry Be Happy!!! IF YOU HAVE READ THIS AND ARE INFURIATED BY THIS THEN OBVIOUSLY YOU FIT INTO ONE OF THESE CATEGORIES, BECAUSE I CLEARLY STATED NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THIS, THIS APPLIES TO THE PEOPLE WHO DO THESE THINGS!!! SO I REALLY DONT WANNA HEAR ANY BITCHIN! MIGHT I also ADD that, I am not a golddigger, nor a ho, I'm not a baby momma if I was, I would not be crazy. I try my best not to hate on other women because I hate to be hated on! I am a confident strong INDEPENDENT WOMAN I dont need a man to make me happy or pay for my stuff, but I would like a man who can be there for me mentally Physically and emotionally. I don't need one but would like one! and last but not least LADIES YOU NEED TO BE HAPPY ABOUT YOURSELF BEFORE YOU CAN BE HAPPY WITH OTHERS!

I hate putting this out there like this but, lately this has really really been bothering me.....DUDES....IT IS TIME TO STEP YOUR GAME UP!! like immediately!!! (I'm not saying all dudes are like this, there are a few good ones out there.) I don't know if you really understand how tired we females are of the bitch ass dudes...like for real...im tired of dudes that like to: 1.playing games 2. lying 3. cheating 4. actin brand new 5. FUCKIN UP for no apparent reason I am not gonna sit here and brag about myself what accomplishments I have achieved, but I must say that I am not some dime a dozen female....I am a female who deserves respect and not some dude that will play games...I am tired of meeting the same type of dudes that all they do is spit WEAK ASS GAME.....like for real..come on now...if you wanna wow the ladies here are just 11 easy steps to follow to get your ideal female. 1. Pay attention (don't just stare at the titties....and ladies don't wear a shirt that HELLA shows off your tits...people are gonna look...thats why you wore it) 2. Give respect (ladies you should make sure your treatin them properly too so they will want to give you that respect) 3. Be considerate (I'm not saying be a bitch, or act weak, but make sure that you keep your girl's feelings in consideration sometimes, ya feel me) 4. Go the extra step every now and then...just by surprising her with that lil something extra every now and then will be good. 5. Put it down properly...None of this oops I just went type of stuff either, giver her the business....(ladies if you do go down thats cool if you don't thats cool too. but to the ladies that do go down I'm talkin to ya'll...if you get the first nut out of the way that way, it makes it just that much easier to keep goin without any interruptions) 6. Treat her like an equal, yea your the man you need to be strong for your woman, but keep in mind your woman is your woman because she is strong, so treat her like that strong female that she is. 7. Don't forget to stay fresh, the ladies don't like a dude that is not on point with it. 8. No games... who likes to guess how someone feels....its YOUR feelings how AM I supposed to guess how you feel? 9. KEEP IT REAL...if your not trying to kick it then be real, if you are trying to get at somebody don't do that through the friend bull, be a man get your swag right and approach the lady. (if she acts like a bitch then she obviously isn't the one then.) 10. Show her that you are the type of person that has personal growth and goals. ( I'm an achiever not a sceamer, so if a dude can't even try to do something productive in his life then you two are ON DIFFERENT PAGES! Don't waste anymore of your anytime minutes on him or her) 11. HAVE SOME SORT OF SWAG ABOUT YOU..it doesnt matter what type of person you are, be the best person you can be. So, now that you have all read and seen what I had to say hopefully at least one of you dudes have learned how to cut the bitchassness and step yo game up!