Quiet_Storm1980's Blog

give some info on get'n your main squeeze back wit out do'n the same ole thing over and over.

Well, it depends on what you have already done. I don't know your situation but I will say this. Be creative. If you have taken him/her out to dinner, take them again but this time take them to dinner in another city. Only you know your situation, only you know what you have done. If you do it again just make them fall inlove withyou again.

Do you know how wonderful it is to have a man call you in the morning just to say, 'I'm thinking about you,' or, 'I just wanted to hear your voice?" asks Los Angeles entertainment director Karen Lee. "That kind of romantic sensitivity and creativity can mean everything to a woman." A similar view was expressed by New York psychotherapist Marlene Menifee: "It's an open secret that women love romance in their life, but the real secret is they cherish the man who is a creative romantic--the man who knows how to personalize the standard flowers-and-candy gestures in a way that signals the action was meant for her and her alone." A case in point was cited by a computer expert who says, "When I first started dating my boyfriend, I mentioned in passing I was interested in reading a new novel. At dinner the next night, he gave me the book. It cost all of six bucks but to me it was worth a million dollars because of what it told me. I think that's when I started falling in love.

XOXO,

♥Nikkie

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I just introduced myself to this guy who i had been checking out for a few months and we went out for the first time last night. He has it going on mentally and i am somewhat intimidated although i'm not too bad myself. I have never engaged in such conversation as i did with him because the men i am used to have been worthless, whereas him he is highly educated and starting his own business. So tell me, how do i conversate with him without feeling as if i am not worthy?

I learned this a long time ago: confidence goes along way. Not to say that you don't have any. I know what you mean, though. Like I did the exact same thing. I just met this guy that in his own way, he is silly but he gets his message across. But being that I  knew what I knew, I can match wits with him. I'm saying this because it's not about the conversations you are having. It is about how you come across with the knowledge that you have.  If you have something to say on the topics that you have, push that feeling of not being worthy to have those types with him to the side and speak ya' mind! Let that confidence show, girl. Show him you mean business.

XOXO

*Comments welcomed*

Need to SPICE things up a bit at home. we BOTH freaks to our hearts, but I am just tired all the time I need to BLOW his? um mind.. yeah.. so what do you suggest?
 

 There is a place, don't know if you have any where you are or not or even if you have heard of it, called Spencers.  I go in there all the time. If you haven't, check 'em out.  They have everything. and i mean EVERYTHING, to keep spice in anything. Try some of the costumes they have, nurses, police officer, etc. Then if that's not you they have board games to get you touchin and feeling everywhere....lol. Make a date. But make it an all day thing, you know. Pretty much cater to everything he wants. Then at the end of the night, end it with a BANG! Another thing is to videotape instructions for him to follow. Like say, for example, fix him dinner then one of the instructions is for him to open the oven or turn the microwave on. another instruction is to turn the radio on....whatever you can think of.  I guarantee you that it will "Blow His Mind"

XOXO

PS. Suggestions and comments welcomed

I personally say that if he does things for you without you asking, if it feels like he knows your thought before you think it then, you might have something. I do feel that all men show there affection in different ways. Some materialistically {I think that's how you spell it}, and the others tradtionally. But you have to be able to decipher what is real and what isn't. Like Betty Wright says, Just because he's brining you flowers and candy doesn't necessarily means he love you. He might be feeling guilty about something else...lol! But if you trust him and he makes you happy, believe in it. It may be so,ething real.

PS. Feel free to comment

XOXO

Welcome to Romance 101. My name is Nicole and This is what I do.  I give advice, tips, tricks, anything you can think even think about dealing with being romantic. Now I don't claim to be an expert in this subject, I don't have a PhD in this subject this is just a fun little thing that I do on the side. So, If you have any questions about how to do this or that, or on how to make ya' "babygirl" or "baby boo", or whatever you call each other, feel special, feel free to ask.