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The overnight success sounds great when it gets thrown around by the media, even though well all know it’s bull. Nothing good happens overnight; careful deduction and eventual execution is what puts wheels on projects, nothing else. Get rich schemes and lottery tickets are fine for those looking for easy ways to fail but for the rest of us looking to polish our Hustle, that wasted time is worse than the ends spent playing into those half %#&@$! dreams. Incremental progress is all we’re likely to see; bursts of locomotive style movement sometimes but most often the road looks more like a staircase than a straight line hence the Q*Bert reference. Starting out fresh from high school or college, we want to... To Read The Rest Visit AmbitionIsSexy

I love my people but even I am not foolish enough to believe that we sometimes hold ourselves back from progress in life and.... To read the rest go to YeahSheSaidIt

So you’ve found a ‘top notch’ mate? You’re in love and everything is going great – next step marriage, right? Wrong!!! Now is the time to ask the tough questions – the real questions. Now is the time to talk about finance and future plans. Here are some questions to ask before getting married:

1) What are we going to do with aging parents – nursing home, will they live with us, etc.?

2) What are our spending and saving habits, how will that change after we are married?

3) Will we have separate or combined investment portfolio’s? If combined, what will our investment style be?

4) Will we have separate or combined bank accounts? If combined, are we allowed to have a personal account? How much should each person contribute to a combined account?

5) Is it okay if one of us stops working, and under what circumstances is that okay?

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Have you ever noticed that you put on weight while you are in a relationship? I know I have. It is the comfort level you slide into with your partner after some time together. After some time you can let loose and eat that extra piece of chicken without feeling like a pig. Your gym routine lessens now because hell! You already landed yourself a man/woman so what is the point? It is really easy for couples, especially those that live together to put on weight together. After a while your routine becomes eat, have sex, go out to eat, eat again….To Read The Rest Go To YeahSheSaidIt

You would have to be under a big dumb rock to not see the media’s latest obsession with marriage. They are reporting on everything from the divorce rate and how it is rising, to successful women who can’t find love, to Black successful women who are lonely to the amount of Black men in prison. It is enough to make me wonder as to whether this sudden focus on marriage is making those who are single fearful of ever getting marriage.... To Read The Rest Go To YeahSheSaidIt

Whenever the subject of budgeting comes up, the first thing you’re likely to hear is that you should learn to live within your means. Chronically overspending is the quickest way to incur debt and invite a lackluster life. To me, there’s always been a bit of a flaw to that thinking–sure it will help you stay within the reigns of your situation and not have you assed out trying to ball like Yao Ming when your pockets are Spud Webb sized. That flaw doesn’t address the fact that living within your means doesn’t allow you the cushion to expand your operations and see growth. To do that, you’ll need to purposely downgrade and live beneath your means.... To Read The Rest Visit AmbitionIsSexy

The argument about the reason “secret” societies exist has been a veritable hot button for years. It’s a topic that most everyone feels compelled to weigh in on and the interest is fed by supposed reports of devil worship, nefarious global takeover schemes and maliciously genocidal plans being concocted that will bring about the end of the world as we know it. From organized tin-hatters like Alex Jones and David Icke to random Youtube phenoms like the Jay-Z Master Mason guy we see how ignitable a subject that is. I’m not privy to the Bilderberg meetings or the high level ranking get-togethers but I do know people in the latter group and much of what is said about them, from the little I could be told, is unfounded and spoken out of abject fear from being excluded. Assuming that the group is robed in scary attire plotting world domination and kicking puppies is a little absurd to me and it should be to you. If anything at all, fraternal orders are just that–fraternal orders of like-minded people interested in improving themselves and their communities. Isn’t that a good thing? There are bound to be mentally.... To Read The Rest Visit AmbitionIsSexy.com

Okay am I a hater or what? I’m not sure how I feel about this person. I feel so confused. Its like I can’t hear anything good about him because I know who he use to be or more so who he use to be to me.....To Read The Rest Go ToYeahSheSaidIt