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5 Signs That He Is Not The Man For You That Women Ignore

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This is another post for my ladies. Ladies, if you are with a man that exhibits these behaviors or brings these characteristics out of you then run. Take heed to my list ladies..Sometimes it is difficult for you to see the situation you are in because you are the one that is in it. My goal is not to blame the man in these different situations. However, sometimes we can get with certain people who can pull us out our natural element. People who can bring out a negative side of us that we never knew existed. How do I know this? Because I have been there before! There have been times when I was in unhealthy friendships and relationships with men. The best choice is to either distance yourself from those people or release them fully from your life. Again, these are signs that occur in a relationship but women dismiss as nothing. They assume that that is just the way it is… Or that that is just the way he is and she just has to deal with it. It doesn’t have to be on both accounts.

1. Asks You To Do Things That You Are Not Comfortable With…Constantly

 

A man that will consistently ask you to do things that make you uncomfortable or that he KNOWS you are against is giving you a big warning. By doing this he is demonstrating that he is extremely selfish and insensitive to the things that you might be morally against. Or perhaps it just is something that you are not ready to go through for whatever reason and he does not care. Either way, any man that consistently asks you to do things that you have vocalized your uncomfortableness about on several occasions, yet he still expects you to do it for him and to put all of your God given good sense to the wayside may not be the man for you. He may resort to saying that he doubts your love for him because you refuse to oblige. You should reply that you doubt his love for you for even asking that of you... To Read The Rest Go To YeahSheSaidIt

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fiojam1
fiojam1

Female, 38, Orlando, FL

Posted December 20, 2010


Very insightful! I wonder how woman tend to not notice these signs. Or are they purposely ignoring them because they feel it is what they deserve?


Bladez321
Bladez321

Male, 21, Brooklyn, NY

Posted December 20, 2010


I agree yet disagree because there are the women in our lives that even if we're with them they push us aside for friends so wouldn't that make certain men doubt the love the women say theyhave for us?


chocolitdrop_1
chocolit...

Female, 56, Birmingham, AL

Posted December 23, 2010


Many times we as women will try to please a man out of love or lust and so we often time allow these things to happen. but if a woman has a healthy self esteem she will not lower it for any man and if this is the type of man she encounters than my only suggestion to her is run girl cos it will only get worst


ellie_gideon
ellie_gi...

Female, Age Private, Tanzania

Posted January 17, 2012


I agree with you 100%. There is a lady she totally blind you try to tell her this is red but she says no this is blue. I have been into that situation for longtime but now I am a free from the prison. Thank you lady.
Ellie



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