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2/18/2013 Figured I would put up a video many of you men need to see, since most of you don't like to read I made it easy. LOL end of my ahole moment.
1/5/2013 Now this is a Great read http://www.yourblackworld.net/ 2012/12/black news/yvette carnell 5 reasons why the african american community is still failing/
1/4/2013 Have something to say. Be able to be thoughtful, curious, solution oriented. If you send me a one click note 9 times out of time I am going to ignore it. It tells me you are either shy which is not bad, but there is a big possibility that I am going to have to lead the conversation. Or you have nothing to talk about. I am not interested in "chatting" with people on auto pilot, have something on your mind. Something you want to talk about; Past hello, how are you, you are cute, where do you live? What makes You unique? Think about it than get back to me.
12/19/2012 I keep hearing women make this simple comment something about a mans biggest flaw is letting another man make his woman smile. Can I say bs. working on a youtube video. I will post it when I am done /
9/26/2012 Best court show ever. Man has credit with Macys, his ex and mother of his child, who's name was on the account, racks up bills under his macy account. Because of the Macy investigation the woman is ordered to pay the man back, but also because of the fraud issue has a warrant out for her arrests. If men started taking legal action more often you wouldn't have women, running up bills, destroying things like cars and clothing. Some women need to stop assuming that because their feelings are hurt they have the right to be stupid. Don't do illegal crap to get him back. Think of how many songs you have heard that support this type of behavior.
9/19/2012 Objective: Keep you so distracted, that you pay little to no attention, to what is really going on around you.
9/10/12 I am amazed at Americans wishing death or harm on people/groups they know nothing about. The only information they are aware of is what is spoon feed by a media that survives on the fact that most wont question or research anything.
9/16/2012 Music should be a message set to a rhythm It should be poetry for my soul and nourishment for my mind. I want to hear the talent in music again. I want to hear the love, the stories, the tragedies, the growth, the power in music again. I recently asked a "rapper" ,who sent out a mass message via youtube to watch his videos, why he wanted to be a rapper? I learned from my father many years ago to ask questions to obtain understanding. I already had an idea of what his response would be, but crossed my fingers that the answer would be deeper more profound than what I expected. If you are going in to music it should be with the desire to share something, over time I should see your growth. If you make a song of hate I have a possibility of understanding you and your message, if only to try and change your mind. So much music now days is cookie cutter and processed. Its BS to the masses and we suck it up like its a role model. If you want to be and artist, but your work lacks art, creativity a message, nourishment, why should I support it?
6/13/2009 Ok I must say this maybe because I am getting old, But men the first thing you offer about you should not be sexual. I am not that woman! If you start that way I am going to quickly loose interest and you are mentally filed under nusiance. Come with something thats going to keep my mind, the fact that you have a big one, have naked pix or want to define yourself as a "freak" which by the way most of you arent. or write stories or poems like those romantic (porn) books that chicks use to read in highschool is not going to catch my interest. If this is the first thing that you are coming at me with I assume you have nothing else to offer and good conversation is a must. PS. If you dont have a picture up I assume you are hiding and no you cant email it to me
5/20/2009 I love good music and was recently introduced to Miguel Jontel. a few suggestions Strawberry Amazing, Sure Thing and Be my Vixen. I dont want to give you too much too soon. But his music... moving!
being too nice is my downfall. lesson learned
11/28 Sick of getting my heart hurt by people who dont matter. Soon I will be out of my feelings, than no more Ms. Nice Me
10/18 Today I did a favor for a very attractive black man. Just noticed how strong his jaw bone was. how smooth his skin is. how sexy his eyes are. and the lips leave me speechless. A man who has a calm patients and what seems to be a kind heart. Yet I am amazed that he doesn't have the confidence he should have. I am finding so many black men that don't have a clear understanding of how wonderful they are and how powerful they can be. Than again I am just finding my own confidence. Hmmm Beautifully Black
7/4 todays Vent. Oh my goodness I am so sick of you emotional unstable, no ball having, moody inconsiderate in great need of a midol men. I use to give men from the east so much credit, but you city men are some b*tches. and no women dont start hitting me up, thinkin I am gonna trade sides. yall are the reason these men are so dang stupid. I just want to share this web site www.myxertones.com thank me later IF anyone knows where I can find this song let me know Why You Beefin Wit Me by Scola 6/21/2008 I am learning to appreciate the life style or maybe just the mind set of bikers. The support they show is like a real good union. Maybe its the freedom of the ride. But I love that I seem to have a grup of big brothers, that are frank and honest with me. lol even though they may not be honest to all the women they know. I watched a man on the freeway wave hello to all the bikers he saw. Its a simple and beautiful connection. LOL yet I amd scared to get on a bike. Just a random thought
Welcome to my random thoughts
5/2/2008 OMG its 4:30am and I have lost someone else close to me. My closet friends big brother who is like a big brother to me. Lord why no warning.Ty I will miss Your smile, hugs and protection even when i didnt realize you had my back. Heaven has another angel please take good care of him for us.
3/18 I am told I need to change my outlook on men. and that yes there is a bunch of garbage, dishonest, run thru and use women, cant keep their word, believe that women have roles but men arent suppose to do ish but provide dingle. that their are trully good men out there, and they are just quite and scared to get hurt again. that I should just increase the men I talk to and when I see garbage trash it. LOL that just sounds like way too much energy. F it if you cant be friends there is no point.
2/26 looks like i will be at bike week again this year The only thang a man has in this world is his word. How come so many men are so dang flaky Wow its nice to have people that care about you that help you out with out you having to ask.
Ã‚Â WO W thanks Tonya Todays lesson know when people are a blessing to you.
Movie to see DEATH SENTENCE 1/18/2008
1/5/2008 My goal this year is to meet and befriend some incredible men. Men that can honestly be friends with women. If you cant be friends with a woman it really tells me you have a lack of respect for them.
Have you ever heard a song you just want to make love to?
Ã‚Â I was told today from a male that he couldn't just sit and watch a movie with me because he would try and put the moves on me. and that I cant fault him for being honest. That a man cant control himself around a woman he is attracted to, So if a woman wants to build a relationship with a man she has to start off with no alone time. if a man cant control himself. am I wrong to assume that its in his nature to cheat? I suggested that ugly women get quality time. He suggested a gay man. all I can do is shake my head its so much easier to remain single.
10/20/2007 This was sent to me by another member. Great timing. I am trying to see the world a bit differently I Lost my brother on 9/24/2007 to a tragic accident I'm trying to be aware of lifes blessings life is really too short. any way read and enjoy
Subject: In response Actually, Real Men are like Jesus. They do exist, they love unconditionally, they sacrifice all for the one they love, yet they are often rejcted, mocked, denied and overlooked for the false pretender. I encourage you to never stop believing, hoping, praying. The Real Deal is often right in front of you wating for you to accept him. Waiting, watching, with open arms and a ready spirit to be all and give all and shower every good gift you so richly deserve. Remember the M&M's Christmas commercial where Red and Yellow meet Santa. They Look upon each other and discovered, "They do exist." BE BLESSED
6/24/2007 This is a messed up thought, But I am starting to believe that good men are like Santa. We would love to believe in him, the though of him comes with all kinds of promises, there are many pretenting to be him. But he doesnt really exist.
and look out for my girl Crea
7/17/2012 Conversation with me will not be easy but should not be forced. I am not one for small talk and often get tired of leading the convo. If you have little on your mind than you have little to talk about. If all you are here to do is look at pictures all the power to you, I do the same sometimes. But don't come to me with useless convo and expect me to be elated. Its sad that I have to give grown people examples of how to interact. But here we go... tell me how you see the world, what you believe, what you stand for, something or someone that you have witnessed that has influenced your life. I am not interested in your material existence, but your mind set. Come up with something more than where you like to club, what care you drive, what job you have, or how you think you want to get to know me, how attractive you feel you are and how you are such a great catch. Have some substance.. something worth reading and responding to. Sigh... 90% of you are little more than surface.
7/3/2012 Watching Zeitgeist: The Movie 2007 on Netflix. Its something, a lot of this a knew about from previous studies but some of this I was unaware of. How many of you know how the Federal Reserve was created and who actually runs it?
6/30/2012 Just watched the best movie I have seen in a long time on netflix. http://movies.netflix.com/WiMo vie/Elite_Squad_The_Enemy_With in/70166258?trkid=8379860
6/24/2012 When I was young I watched my father have clear and concise conversations with women and realized at a young age that women in general didn't really listen. I felt like they heard what they wanted to hear. As I have gotten older I realize most people do it. In conversations you often have a person that talks and the other person pours their own confidnce, insecuritys and life experience into what another person says. This often clouds the message. We have all done it. What we need to do is learn to ask questions. Stop assuming stop building on to what others are saying absent of their approval. Ask questions to clarify and leave the conversation with the inteded message that you were suppose to be left with.
6/10/2012 Last night was one of the best chats I have had for a while. People really misunderstand my intent when I start a chat room. I am honestly not expecting profound mind breaking interaction, but some mind expansion is nice. I just want to be able to relax and interact with like minded adults who don't come online to be something they aren't in real life i.e. chat bullies, Internet thugs, or sex monsters. If you only know how to get negative attention like a small child, we wont get along. Just be able to treat people they way you want to be treated, and share information and experiences. In the past if you came at me wrong I would rip out your old one and rebuild a new one and send you on your way. lol I am older and less tolerant now, and bp has a wonderful ignore feature. If you come online to leave a path of negativity I will ignore you. Thanks again to my chat buddies from 6/9/2012 I enjoyed it.
11/20/2011 People I am not a romantic option for you. I am here to exchange ideas, I am very selective about the company I keep and even more selective of the men I put feelings into. I am not that chick. If you have information you would like to share cool just make sure you put it in a way you will get a response. Typical isn't good.
11/21/2011 So lately I have been starting a room "Thoughtful" it has been interesting. The other night I started a room called "What is a good man" Great interactions, not always on topic but good connection. I am thinking about creating another chat room on good women, but I would like to create a Time Date and maybe even place to have better control or direction in the room. No cyber bullies! let me know what you think
10/14/2011 Watching 20/20 A Hidden America: Children of the Plains, As hard as things may be they are so much harder for others. So many of us forget how this country was built and the blood that has become part of the earth. This is the reality and the future of this "great" country.. crazy
10/13/2011 *disclaimer* There is no need to assume anything that I say. I am very upfront about how I view and see the world. Don't assume that I am like every other simple chick on the planet. I can spot BS a mile away. When you read my page and don't like my "negative" comments about men 1. don't take it personal, I don't know you.(but if the shoe fits) 2. Don't assume because I disapprove of behaviors, that I have been wrapped up and in a serious situation of any kind. I am often very disappointed because I see dumb %#&@$! before I can even consider feelings. Its sad when I don't even have the time to remember a mans name before I see simple little boy games and exit stage left. Sadly enough I blame this on sorry women that just except anything and don't require that men step up to the plate. I am not going to make it easy for you. I work hard on being a good person, considerate, supportive, thoughtful and caring about those I care about. So I am very selective of my company. Not every one is going to get that. So if that makes me a mean, bitter or even stuck up Black woman. Oops my bad sorry you got your feelings hurt. I am sure the next simple broad will rub your fake ego and make it feel better.. lol ok had to vent (SMILES)
oh P.S the great men that I know personally I let them know on a regular basis.
10/11/11 Man BP has always been my venting space. The level of BS on this site grows and spreads like a cold. All the people with the fake profiles that send all most identical emails with fake pictures. Than you have some real profiles were men are misspelling words on purpose trying to look as hood as possible. I am not into the "bad guys", thugs or womanizers. If you don't carry yourself like a gentleman I am so not interested, that means actions as well as presentation. I am not that chick you are use to, and I am older now rather than tell you about it I will just look and shake my head and move on. If you send me an note think about the response you want from me. I know it will hurt at first if you aren't use to it, but try it.
9/10/11 For the men who send out general notes that you copy and paste to mass amounts of females the first few times I ignore them, after that I add you to my block list.
8/30/11 Well be vending at BCCC Liberty Campus on Wednesday, August 31, 2011 and Thursday, September 1, 2011. On Wednesday, August 31st Venders will join the cookout on the Quad and offer vending outside in the Quad from 11am to 3pm. On Thursday, September 1st, the vending will be inside in the Student Atrium area from 11am - 6pm.
8/6/11 Watching the Joneses. The concept is awesome and sick at the same time. Funny thing is I wanted to study psychology and was told there was no money in it. The understanding of the human mind is captivating. But marketing is the understanding and the mental manipulation of the mind. Very intriguing but also extremely ahole.. my dark side is the appreciation of how it is done, but my conscious wont allow me to apply it.
Will Be at BCCC again this Thursday 3/17 from 10:00am to 4:00pm The exhibitions will be held in the Atrium of the Student Services Wing (ground floor) of the BCCC Liberty campus. I will have jewlery and accessories and maybe some sample bake goods, for customers, from http://www.Anewaddiction.com/ and hopefully some new products
10/6/2010 Follow my dessert busines on Twitter@ http://twitter.com/anewaddicti on and my web page @ http://www.anewaddiction.com
Below is a video of my father discussing his up and coming book Religion and Race be on the look out. Oh and he is the reason I am the great person I am, and yes having him as a father has set my standards high I love this man
9/29/2010 man I am so in love with Vista print. Not only can I design my own stuff upload it and have them print it and send it to me, they also always have free stuff and now I can get paid everyone I refer them? LOL click the link and use it please http://vistaprint.tellapal.com /a/clk/12g
9/20/2010 interesting how often we build and practice our negative habits and feelings, but often do so little to ensure our own happiness. Time to make a serious effort to do so. demons find entrance in the weak and wounded (stressed)
9/5/2010 Someone shared this on facebook http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =bFO1b9I-u5Q&feature=youtu be_gdata_player
8/4/2010 Treat people they way you want to be treated. I am currently dealing with an issue of people who take advantage. Seems like people are so involved with instant gratification rather than the long haul. People are doing things that are knowingly wrong to others, testing and pushing the line out each time, because, they are getting a quick and seemingly positive payback. but what they don't realize is karma can be a beast and all of those little fast paybacks are building up to a huge pay back against them. Stop making a deal with the devil looking for the quick and easy, and take your time and energy to do right by yourself and others. Make a sturdy foundation you can actually live with.
7/6/2010 learning to be a lot more open.. shoot all I have is time right now
6/28/2010 110% focused on business if you would like to attend a dessert tasting/ shopping event or even an appointment to shop contact me
4/26/2010 Steven put a hurtin on my hair. I didnt know my hair could look or feel like this. But it also requires me to stay out of the rain. natural curls are so powerful. LOL but I would like to have someone play in my hair before I take it back natural...LOL
4/14/2010 Listening to old school. I cant think of the artist or the name of the song but, "Your love deserves and encore" Makes me think the very few men that actually deserve one, at least the ones in my life come with way too many issues! ok FYI taxes and allergies suck LOL
4/8/2010 I just posted this on a blog.. just a thought What Tiger does in his personal life is not mine, nor no one who is not close to him, business. I am bored with this topic. He is not a friend of mine he is not related to me in anyway. It amazes me how quickly we are to judge other people without taking the time to fix ourselves. Being part of the media one should be well aware that marketing is a mental manipulation. Are you new? If you don't like it, fine don't purchase the products but the holy attitude is painfully comical. Get over ones self.
3/24/2010 Change of plans I wont be going into the shop today. Some 24 hour thing I have to do. But I will be making cookies for Sale this week and indiviual peach cobblers next week. let let me know if you are interested.
3/17/2010 My new theme song Ay-Yo by Melanie Fiona. Oh and Dont sleep on Migel Jontel
3/16/2010 Watched good hair and I learned a few things. 1. I wont be getting another relaxer, it really made me appreciate my curls. 2. Why men really didnt speak when I was wearing a weave. There is no way in hello kitty I would have paid 1000 for some dang hair, I am so not high maintaince. Also I wouldnt have expected a man to pay for me to maintain my hair.. WTF what kind of women are yall dealing with.
3/14/2010 Man its been a min since I updated. I am still in business doing ok. I really need to learn to market I am so ready to quit my "job" and put my all into my business. we shall see what happens. Just got back from a long weekend at Cbcc at the womens expo I wasnt in the main event section but still made some sales and some good contacts. now I am playin Soul Cal on dreamcast...LOL yall dont know nothing about that
1/8/2010 Feeling super blessed. The shop opening is delayed, but I found two perfect chairs for a great price. Found a display case on sale that makes my rings look so HOT. My credit card machine is up an running and I dont need a phone line Thank you MAGIC JACK!
1/3/2010 I was told to be more open. and I have been working on that but dang if you arent going to step up please get out of my door so I can see who is next.
12/29/2009 I am so excited I cant keep still as of 1/5/2010 ***(date change)*** 1/19/2010 I open the doors to my new business. Life is a wonderful thing and I am blessed with so many wonderful supportive people in my life. No time for stress or drama. Now I just need two really stong men to help me move in. LOL
11/7/2009 Ok a lot of things have changed with me and my life but i am still surprised often by others reactions to me. You wouldnt guess by my page, but my initial nature is a bit shy. But what I find interesting is I have been natural off and on for the last few months and men feel more comfotable to approach me? Why is that LOL my hair is a hot mess my nails are no longer done yeah men are quicker to speak and compliment..LOL yall are funny oh and did I mention I look like a young boy like this ;)
9/9/2012 Spent most of the day working on my fathers web page. His new book will be out soon. http://www.wadelaney.com/onmym ind.htm
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