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Hi BP! My name is Jessica. First and
foremost, I want to start off by blessing the Lord, the almighty
GOD. I am very blessed and thankful for everything that I have.
Without GOD, I would be nowhere. With that said.....Any negativity,
please leave my page and keep it moving.
A little side note..I get a lot of notes on a daily basis and it gets hard sometimes to keep up with everyone. I appreciate the time that goes into writing a note, and I thank you for writing me. If I dont get back to you, I'm just a little busy. Or, I may not be interested. Just getting out of a long-term relationship, so that leaves me single( for the moment). I AM HAPPILY SINGLE! I'm not currently looking for a relationship, not even trying to date right now. Friends only!!! Please dont send me a note asking for my phone #, or trying to take me out. I appreciate the gestures, but right now I am focusing strictly on my career. BP is my alternative to myspace! Lol! I 'm in the process of finishing school with a bachelor's of science in nursing (bsn) degree. I plan on becoming a traveling nurse so eventually I will end up out of the U.S, and will work internationally over in Jamaica, Africa, Spain, etc. I'm in the "helping profession", and I want to give back to others that are less fortunate. Especially in those third world countries. I consider myself a writer, so it is a major turn on for those men who can really write well. So, if you send me a note, an email, an IM, etc., dont be scared to do spell check! Also, alot of people want to know my stats! So.... I am a native of AZ! 26 years young with no children. I have my own house, car, money (I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.EN.T!) so if you're interested in me and have 50-11 kids, feel free to move on to the next woman. I'm not trying to be a stepmom! There are too many available men without kids. Feel me? I'm sure that I could say a lot more about myself, but....you can always send me an note! lol! I don't bite! = ) A PLAYA AND A PIMPTRESS A Playa has 4 different types of girls... 1. Wifey 2. Baby Girl 3. Side Piece 4. Jump Off 1) Wifey is the sexiest, most successful and most respected of all the women. She is loved, needed and wanted by her man...she is VIRTUALLY IRREPLACEABLE. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love, he never wants to see her with another man...BUT he will cheat on her with Baby Girl until he is mature enough to realize that if he gets caught or f--ks up in any way and loses Wifey, he would be screwed, and NEVER be happy again. Wifey gets along with mom, is independent, never nags, loves to dress sexy for her man, can cook and loves to keep a clean house. Wifey gets called 5 or 6 times a day. Drawback of Wifey, she loves public displays of affection...which might interfere with the acquisition of a Side Piece. 2) Baby Girl is ALWAYS just as hot as wifey and usually has a very active social life...she IS replaceable, thinks she's the next Wifey, but will only be Wifey if an extreme disaster takes place. Baby Girl gets some of the benefits of Wifey, like quality time every now and then and even presents on birthdays and holidays, but that's as far as it goes. The main reason to have Baby Girl is in case Wife really really f--ks up, she can be replaced in a matter of weeks because Baby Girl has been groomed to slip right into her spot. Be careful of Baby Girl, she tends to be just as attached as Wifey and therefore can be dangerous to the Side Piece. Biggest benefit of Baby Girl...she is extremely private and hates causing a scene, baby girl can come into the same restaurant as you and wifey and wifey will have no idea you two even know each other. Baby Girl is a master of disguise as well. 3) Side Piece, usually a female that the guy uses only for sex and other pleasures, she is usually the one that he goes to for that 3-some or some late night head after the club. When Wifey is acting up and Baby Girl is at work, the Side Piece is usually the one to hold him over for a few hrs. He can meet with the Side Piece for reasons other than sex, but normally that only happens one week during the month. Side Pieces are hard to spot when they are out because most of her friends are either Wifey's or Jump Offs. Drawback of having more than one side piece, they usually know each other somehow...we kinda think there is a side piece network.com or something. Try to keep your side piece count below 4 if possible. 4) Jump Off...every mans dream and worst nightmare. She is trying to move up in life, wants to be a Side Piece or Wifey but doesn't know how to go about it. They are just the girls he hollas at when he is with his boys...she is usually stored in the cell phone by a nickname because he barely remembers her real name and where he met her...he only recalls how fat her %#&@$! was. The Jump Off gets called in emergencies only, when wifey is moody, baby girl is on vacation and side piece is with her baby's father. The Jump Off is extremely dangerous in public for a number of reasons, she is usually 5 other guys jump off as well, so she might cause drama with you and one of those dudes if you slip up, she also has no problem confronting you in the mall when you are with Wifey (something that baby girl would NEVER do) and the most dangerous thing about Jump Off...she ALWAYS seems to find out where you live and or work. A Pimpstress has FOUR KINDS OF MEN CHECK IT OUT!!! It's T-R-U-E!!! THE HUSBAND He is the sweetest, loving, kind man you know. His intellect makes him sexy although he is handsome. He treats you like a queen and puts you first. He takes care of the kids, you and home. This is the man you love coming home to. He spoils you with gifts and is a hard worker. THE BOO This one is sexy as hell! This is the dude that you've known for years, kinda your homey-lover-friend! No matter who is in your life or who is in his life, you and your BOO seem to always have a thing for each other. Your BOO has a wifey, so he has as much to lose as you do, therefore you are guaranteed that ya'll relationship is on the 'DL'. You run to your BOO when your husband "F" up! Your BOO gives you comfort and the sex is da bomb, which explains why you can't leave him alone! THE MAINTENANCE MAN This is Mr. Wine and Dine. He has the charm, the romance and a body like a stripper! He is the one you call every now an then when HUSBAND and BOO done pissed you off! He really wants to be your HUSBAND or BOO on the low but he knows his role. HUSBAND will never suspect a thing because this man is the deacon at your church and well respected in the community so no one would know of ya'll secret love affair. You sneak and go on trips and getaways. He keeps that bank account tight. THE RUFF NECK This is the man we fantasize about when HUSBAND, BOO and THE MAINTENANCE man just not doing it for you! This is Mr. Bad Boy, he got the body from hell, the tattoos, and the motorcycle. You call on him when you want your back blown out, the bottom hit, and you want to walk bow legged for a couple days. He is the man HUSBAND sees and knows he needs to get on the treadmill to lose those extra pounds he has gained since ya'll been married. THE RUFF NECK is the one that rock the suits in the day and trade the Armani in for tims and jeans at night. He is pulled out in emergencies only and you can't resist to get your freak on in the craziest places, (in the car, the back of a vacant building, etc.) because his main goal is to tear it up! THE RUFF NECK is in your cell phone as one of your homegirls named Tee Tee! I was once told that I wasn't Black enough? Happened to wrote a poem about it, want to hear it, hear it go! Lol! BLACK ENIOUGH A light girl with black features A black girl with light skin Lighter than chocolate Darker than cream My lips are full My nose is wide To look at me It is the color black you'll see but an ivory mother proves to be Skin caramel brown, hair curly black But there is something she lacks What are you anyway? Black? White? Mixed? Latina? Native American? Mulato? Caribbean? Puerto Rican? Gringa? Middle Eastern? Central American? Venezuelan? Greek? Biracial? Cape Verdean? Spanish? Cuban? Irish? Hispanic? Morena? Multiracial? Colombian? Eastern European? African? Mestizo? Brazilian?... I'm all of the above because you think I am (depending on the clothes I'm wearing, the company I'm keeping, the language I'm speaking, the food I'm eating, the style of my hair, the shade of my skin, the country I'm in), and I'm none of the above. What am I? I'm a question. I'm an answer. I'm a register of racial classifications, A list of possible labels, And a navigator of niches that don't quite fit. I'm a petitioner for no more pigeon-holing, Who loves to keep you guessing. I'm a medley, a mixture, A collage of colors, A blended body shifting shades, A cultural chameleon Of ambiguous ancestry, and hybrid heritage. I'm creator of my own category, I'm an inventor of my own identity. I'm mixed, but I'm not mixed up. I'm not about denying a part of me. I'm not about trying to pass. I'm no sell-out, no traitor, No wanna-be, no mutt. I'm no tragedy, and no exotic other. ...If anything, I'm just another hue of you. I'm not about anomaly or impurity, About halfness or being in between. I'm no less of one thing than I am of another. I'm no poster child for interracial harmony, No model for miscegenated humanity. I'm not about messy mingling, And I'm not what's meant by the melting pot. I'm no jungle fever rainbow baby, No icon for interbreeding. I'm not about trying to be better than anyone else, Or trying to be different. What I'm about is being all of what I am... Nothing more, nothing less, nothing else. I'm black + white + I don't know what else = both/neither/other, "half" transracially adopted, descendent of people I've never met. A brown-skinned, curly/straight/frizzy black-haired (with some black, blond, and orange thrown in). A multicolorful woman. I'm mixed. What I am is Me. I LOVE POETRY. HERE`S A RANDOM POEM THAT I WROTE:(BACK IN 04') DAMN You are so fine What do I need to do to make you mine Our one night of passion wasnt enough Can I get another night of that good love Damn I find myself thinking about that night When we turned off the lights Kissing those big, soft lips You rubbing on my hips Damn But now that our night has been shared, can I get a call Instead I hear, I`ll call you tommorow I gave my heart, mind and body to you that night But now you cant return my calls, that just aint right Damn Youre my next door neighbor I just want to come over later But you like playing games, even though it makes me weak, So the next time we share a night of passion, lets agree not to speak What I look for in men: motivation, honesty, love, and education on motivation: The most important thing about motivation is goal setting. You should always have a goal. on honesty: If you tell the truth you don`t have to remember anything. on love: Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all on education: It is possible to store the mind with a million facts and still be entirely uneducated. |
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