I'm not any longer looking for a man (dating) Gave up on that, at least on BP! All I wanted was, just to find a compatable partner to enjoy life with.(Going on vacatiotions with, having conversations with, cuddle with, go out to dance with, go to the movies with, go swimming with, maybe even share a living space with...) Someone who adds value to your life: varies from combining income, cooking, companionship, family,week-end getaways, pleasure, etc.... However men nowadays are very cocky and want women to persue them. Forget that, LOL If that is how it's gonna be nowadays-then I want no part of it, I rather stay happily single. I think I experienced a culture shock on here. In my culture men persue women. Men are not afraid to put time and effort into a woman, to win her heart/mind and companionship. I'm absolutely not interested in any casual intimate encounters, that is not my style, and I can find that on every corner, dont' need to be on BP for that. Also, it seems that men are very intimidated by a strong, independent woman, who speaks her mind and stands by her values. It takes a very special and strongt man to handle a REAL woman.
With that said, I'm not dating anymore!!! Almost took my site down completely, however I did meet a few nice individuals on here... and that is why I decided to stay on BP.
I'm currently only looking for friends (males or females) to hang out with sometimes (movies, bars, clubs, beach, cook-outs, church, amusement parks, etc....) with or without kids, it doesn't matter. And for all the tight fellows out there, who are scared to spend a dollar: Don't worry it'll be 50/50, That's how friends do.
