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  • Here For:

    Friends, Networking

  • Sex:

    Female

  • Dating Preference:

    Male

  • Location:

    Temple, TX

  • Race:

    Black/African American

  • Ethnicity:

    Puerto Rican

  • Zodiac:

    Pisces


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In my young years I took pride in the fact that luck was called a lady. In fact, there were so few public acknowledgments of the female presence that I felt personally honored whenever nature and large ships were referred to as feminine. But as I matured, I began to resent being considered a sister to a changeling as fickle as luck, as aloof as an ocean, and as frivolous as nature. The phrase "A woman always has the right to change her mind" played so aptly into the negative image of the female that I made myself a victim to an unwavering decision. Even if I made an inane and stupid choice, I stuck by it rather than "be like a woman and change my mind." Being a woman is hard work. Not without joy and even ecstasy, but still relentless, unending work. Becoming an old female may require only being born with certain genitalia, inheriting long-living genes and the fortune not to be run over by an out-of-control truck, but to be one and remain a woman command the existence and employment of genius. The woman who survise intact an happy must be at once tender and tough. She must have convinced herself, or be in the unending process of convincing herself, that she, her values, and her choices are important. In a time and world where males hold sway and control, the pressure upon woman's toughness must be evidence. She must resist considering herself a lesser version of her male counterpart. She is not a sculptress, poetess, authoress, Jewess, Negress, or even (now rare) in university parlance a rectoress. If she is the thing, then for her own sense of self and for the education of the ill-informed. She must insist with rectituae in being the thing and in being called the thing. A rose by any other name may smell as sweet, but a woman called by a devaluing name will only be weakened by the misnomer. She will need to prize her tenderness and be able to display it at appropriate times in order to prevent toughness from gaining total authority and to avoid becoming a mirror image of those men who value power above life, and control over love. It is imperative that a woman keep her sense of humor intact and at the ready. She must see, even it only insecret, that she is the funniest, looniest woman in her world, which she should also see as being the most absurd world of all times. It has been said that laughter is therapeutic and amiability lengthens the life span. Woman should be tough, tender, laugh as much as possible, and live long lives. The struggle for equality continues unabated, and the woman warrior who is armed with wit and courage will be among the first to celebrate victory. "In All Ways Woman"-Maya Angelou "

Speech that is filled with wisdom is noble and even divine." 'A mans felicity consists not in the outward and visible blessing of fortune, but in the inward and unseen perfections and riches of the mind.'-Thomas Carlyle

All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act towards one another in a spirit of brother/sisterhood.

I am me. Nothing more and maybe a whole lot less to others, but at this point in life I'm not wasting my time to even care. Those who matter don't mind and those who mind dont matter. If you can't accept me at my worst you surely don't deserve me at my best. I am first and foremost ALWAYS a WOMAN and then a MOM. Everything else just falls into place thereafter. I don't tolerate ignorance or ignorant people. I surely don't respect or appreciate "men" who only want to "holla" because of my pictures. Grow the hell up. Beauty is only skin deep and also in the eye of the beholder. There is more to me than my mixed skin and good hair. Get to know my mind. If all we go off of is the outter appearance than we have lost everything else and there is no need to contact me. if the first thing I read in messages is you are fine, sexy, blah blah blah I will delete it. Simple as that. I will be able to tell if you read my page because of how you "come at me". Treat and talk to me likethe GROWN woman I am and was raised to be. Anything else is uncivilzed and I don't have time for games. I'm God-fearing, goal oriented, driven, ambitious, educated, hard working, amongst other things and I expect all that and more from any man. I have standards. Don't tell me what you think I want to hear. I'm blunt, honest, and loyal, and nobody wil ever take that away from me. But on a lighter note I'm the goffiest, most clumsy, facetious person you might ever meet. I o enjoy having fun, but I am family oriented, which means I rather be a homebody than a fast %#&@$! busy body. I love Maya Angelou, Walt Whitman, Robert Frost, and Langston Hughes. I am a Phenomenal Woman, and Still I Rise, Spontaneous Me , who Takes The Road Less Traveled...and I'm Still Here!!! Hit me up I don't bite! I don't mind intelligent, fun conversation, but keep that ignorant %#&@$! moving..... I'M OLD ENOUGH TO KNOW BETTER!!

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